The Question.

Dear Diary, so, there is this question that one of my friend ask me about it, but end up, I’ve no idea, I mean, I don’t know what kind of answer shall I give her. Because there are 2 different answers in my mind, I wonder what will you do, when you’re facing this. So, here is the situation.

The boyfriend of my friend went for a vacation with friend, and, yup, that's what he told the girlfriend. However, the girlfriend accidentally saw a message in his phone that he is actually going with his ex-girlfriend. So, she knew it, but she was wondering what can she do.

When she asked me about it, I don’t know what to tell, coz, the girlfriend and the boyfriend are both my friend. So, end up, I told her two ways to solving it.

1. Believe him that he is going with the friend, who says ex couldn't be friend? He is not telling you the truth because he knew that when he told you, you’ll get crazy/jealous/mad and etc. So, he chooses to not telling you, to protect your relation. So, as a girlfriend and also to protect the relationship between both of you, believe him. Might be stupid, but its worth if you cherish yours relation.
2. Telling him that you actually know about it, but not getting mad at him, and let him go with her. Maybe you can also telling him that, telling truth is better for each other, but make sure that you won’t get mad when he telling you the truth, which is “Hey, I’m going for a vacation with my ex-girlfriend, but not with you” *I’m kidding.* If he choose to tell you the truth, I’m pretty sure he will use a proper way to tell you.

So, I wonder will it help, or which suggestion (from me) will she choose to do. What about you, diary? Which one will you choose? *sounds like you know how to answer the question*

Anywhere, whatever it is, I’ve provided my solution for her. In return, please wish me luck in my exam tomorrow. Psychology test huh…. =)

Love,

V.